12 Things I Wish I’d Known Before I Became a Minimalist

Embarking on the journey of minimalism can feel like stepping into a new world. It’s exciting and full of promise, but there are also challenges and lessons along the way. As someone who’s embraced this lifestyle for a decade, I wanted to share 12 things I wish I’d known before I became a minimalist. Here are some insights that might help you on your own minimalist journey.

12 THINGS I WISH I’D KNOWN BEFORE I BECAME A MINIMALIST

If you’re curious about minimalism and would like to explore some of the benefits of a minimalist, simpler life for yourself, I hope this article might offer some helpful tips.

1. Minimalism Is Personal

One of the first things I wish I’d known is that minimalism looks different for everyone. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. For some, it means owning just a few essential items, while for others, it might mean decluttering their schedule, workspace or digital life. It’s about finding what works best for you and aligns with your values.

Don’t feel pressured to fit into someone else’s version of minimalism. If you want a colourful home, instead of bare white walls – go for it. If you want a cupboard full of fancy mugs for your tea – go for it. Love your clothes and need a walk-in wardrobe – go for that too! Your journey is your own.

2. The Process Takes Time

I initially thought minimalism was a quick fix. Just get rid of stuff, right? But in reality, it’s a gradual process. Decluttering your life, whether it’s physical belongings, mental clutter, or commitments, takes time. It’s important to be patient and give yourself grace. Start small, maybe with a single drawer or a specific category like clothes.

Over time, you’ll see progress, and it will feel much more sustainable. Minimalism is not an overnight wonder. If you succeed overnight, you’re a more successful minimalist than me! It took me years and I’m still learning about minimalism as I go.

3. Emotional Attachment Is Real

One of the biggest surprises for me was how emotionally attached I was to some of my belongings when they seemed to have a memory or sentiment attached to them. Letting go can be hard, and it’s okay to feel that way. What helped me was taking a photo of items that had sentimental value but were not serving a practical purpose. This way, I could keep the memory without holding onto the physical item.

We can’t always reason with our emotions so if you’re struggling with the emotional pull of your stuff, be patient and kind to yourself. This is probably one of the hardest aspects of decluttering and I find it’s harder the older you get and the deeper the memories you hold.

4. Minimalism Is More Than Just Decluttering

Minimalism isn’t just about getting rid of stuff; it’s about creating space for what truly matters. This could mean fostering deeper relationships, pursuing hobbies, or simply enjoying a clutter-free environment. It’s a holistic lifestyle change that can lead to greater fulfilment and peace of mind.

Once you declutter your physical space, you might find yourself wanting to simplify other areas of your life, like your schedule or even your thoughts. This is the minimalist mindset shift where gradually (or suddenly for some) we realise that life is too complex in many ways and we have this desire to go back to basics.

5. It’s Okay To Keep What You Love

I had this misconception that being a minimalist meant I had to get rid of everything non-essential. But that’s not true! If something brings you joy or serves a purpose, it deserves a place in your life – and there shouldn’t any judgement on what brings you joy or purpose.

Minimalism is about curating your possessions, not eliminating them. It’s about making intentional choices that support the life you want to live. So, tell me, how do you want to live?

6. Your Spending Habits Will Change

Before becoming a minimalist, I tended to shop out of boredom and frustration. But as I embraced this lifestyle, my spending habits changed drastically. I became more mindful of my purchases, focusing on quality over quantity.

This shift not only saved me money but also reduced the clutter coming into my home. I wish I’d known how freeing this would feel – it’s empowering to know you’re in control of your spending and your space. Minimalism can help our financial awareness in so many ways, from helping us to save money to moving out of a poverty mindset.

7. Community Support is Invaluable

Going minimalist can sometimes feel like you’re swimming against the tide, especially if those around you don’t share the same values. Finding a community, whether online or in person, can provide invaluable support and inspiration. Connecting with like-minded individuals, even being inspired by minimalist books, YouTube channels, personal blogs and social media can help you stay motivated and offer practical tips and advice.

Don’t underestimate the power of community on your minimalist journey. Whilst the internet can be a distracting and challenging place, it’s also a source of wonderful information and inspiration.

8. There’s No Perfect Minimalist

Perfection is a myth, even in minimalism. There will be times when you feel like you’re not minimalist enough or you’ve taken a step back. That’s normal, especially as clutter tries to invade our lives in so many ways.

Minimalism is about progress, not perfection. It’s about continually making choices that align with your values and improve your quality of life. Be kind to yourself and remember that it’s a journey, not a destination.

9. Minimalism Can Impact Your Mental Health

One of the most profound benefits of minimalism is its impact on mental health. A clutter-free environment can lead to a clutter-free mind. I found myself feeling less stressed and more focused. The simplicity of my surroundings allowed me to think more clearly and feel more at peace.

If I’d known how much minimalism would improve my mental well-being and awareness, I would have started sooner.

10. Minimalism May Affect Your Relationships

Not everyone wants to be a minimalist. In fact, some people are very critical of it. Although I know minimalism is nothing to do with not being grateful for having stuff and it’s certainly not saying that we know better than everyone else and that we’re perfect home-keepers and never make a bad purchase, I think this is sometimes the impression of minimalism that people have. I have made and continue to make mistakes at home and in life.

But, when you go against the cultural norm, sometimes it takes you towards like-minded people and away from others with different priorities. Minimalism can lead us to question relationships that don’t align with our own priorities and the presence of clutter can so often lead to tension and stress in households too.

11. Minimalism Can Make You Feel Vulnerable

I stopped mindless shopping trips and found other ways to spend a rainy Saturday afternoon. I removed social media apps from my phone and read my book more. I’ve tried to ditch TV in the evenings but found myself restless and in search of something to occupy my mind.

Some minimalist practices I’ve found really easy, others have been tough. I’ve had to confront my attitudes, challenge habits and behaviours, approach life with a more open mind and come face-to-face with feelings of guilt, regret, sadness and anxiety over decisions, actions, limiting beliefs, emotional props and baggage.

I had no idea my minimalist path would start with getting rid of a few tops I never wore but would also go on to open up a Pandora’s box of emotions. I had to learn to be comfortable with who I am, why I do what I do and how this shapes my life. It’s a very vulnerable but interesting journey.

12. Minimalism Is A Journey Of Self-Discovery

Finally, minimalism is as much about self-discovery as it is about simplifying your life. As you let go of excess, you start to learn more about what truly matters to you. Instead of a boring and rigid lifestyle, you discover your values, priorities, and what brings you joy. This journey can be incredibly rewarding and eye-opening.

CONCLUSION

Becoming a minimalist has been one of the best decisions of my life, but it wasn’t without its challenges and surprises. By understanding that minimalism is personal, a gradual process, and more than just decluttering, you can approach it with a healthier mindset. Embrace the journey, be patient with yourself, and enjoy the many benefits that come with living a simpler, more intentional life.

If you’ve been exploring the minimalist lifestyle, what would you say to a wannabe minimalist? What do you wish you’d known beforehand or what have you learnt that might help others trying to live more with less? I’d love to hear from you so please leave a comment at the end of the article!

MORE RESOURCES ON MINIMALISM

I’ve written a few articles on minimalism and how a more intentional life can help us in so many ways.

If you’re new to the concept, you might enjoy my beginner’s guide to minimalism as a good starting point.

If you feel minimalism might be too extreme or rigid, you might enjoy these ideas on making minimalism work for you.

Or just start gentle and build in some minimalism habits and routines to weave into your every day.

Live simply. Live intentionally. Create a life you love.