Do your days have their own agenda? Feeling squeezed out by your busy life? Here are 10 mindful habits to reduce daily stress and bring you back home.
DO YOU NEED TO ADJUST YOUR SAILS?
Sometimes life takes a turn in a direction we hadn’t planned. No matter how organised or streamlined you are, or whether you just go with the flow and ride the waves of life, there are times when things just don’t go how we want them too.
These can be big, impactful changes in life, or they can be just the daily strains of our everyday. I’m in the mix of both these extremes and I keep reminding myself that most things in life are transient. What feels big today, may seem insignificant next month.
Regardless of the cause or consequences, stress affects our bodies and minds more so now than ever before. I was sad to read that, in the US, around 34% of adults report feeling that stress is completely overwhelming for them on most days.
Life can be tough for sure. But, as the saying goes… “You can’t control the wind but you can adjust your sails.”
So, if those choppy waters of life are sending you in the wrong direction, maybe this article will help you adjust your sails!
MINDFUL HABITS TO REDUCE DAILY STRESS
If your days or your life are feeling tough to navigate, come back to yourself, back to basics. Here are some mindful habits to reduce daily stress.
1. Start the Day with Intentions, Not To-Do Lists
It’s so easy to wake up and immediately start thinking about what needs doing: emails, errands, meetings, you name it. But instead of diving into the day’s demands, try spending the first few minutes in a different way. Take a moment just for yourself and set an intention for the day. This can be as simple as “I want to be present,” or “Today, I’ll be kind to myself.”
Intentions differ from goals or to-dos because they don’t have to be achieved – they’re more about how you’d like to feel or experience your day. When you set an intention, you’re framing your mindset in a positive, mindful way that can influence how you handle whatever comes next. And honestly, it’s a small but powerful habit that’s way more uplifting than mentally listing your tasks!
2. Breathe Deeply When You Feel Overwhelmed
This might sound basic, but when was the last time you really focused on your breathing? Taking just a minute to breathe deeply can be a game-changer, especially in moments when stress is creeping up. Try the 4-7-8 technique: inhale through your nose for four counts, hold for seven, and exhale through your mouth for eight. Repeat this a few times.
Breathing deeply activates the body’s relaxation response, signalling to the brain that everything’s okay. It’s a mini reset for the mind and body, making you feel calmer and more in control. Keep this habit in your back pocket for whenever you need it, whether that’s in traffic, before a meeting, or during any stressful moment. Yes, you could even try it before entering the den of chaos and dirty dishes that’s your teenager’s room!
3. Practice Single-Tasking (Yes, Just One Thing at a Time)
Our world glorifies multitasking, but the truth is, trying to juggle too many things at once can increase stress. Instead, try single-tasking – focusing on just one thing at a time. When you’re making coffee, for example, just focus on that. Notice the aroma, the sound, and the warmth of the cup in your hands.
This simple shift can make everyday activities feel more satisfying and calming. By paying attention to each task as it comes, you’ll feel more focused, and your mind won’t be constantly racing ahead to the next thing. Plus, you’ll be less likely to feel frazzled or drained by the end of the day.
4. Take Mini Tech Breaks Throughout the Day
Let’s face it: phones, computers, and screens dominate our lives, which can increase stress without us even realising it. Taking intentional breaks from technology can give your mind space to breathe. Even a five-minute break can be enough to reset.
Step outside, stretch, or just close your eyes and enjoy a few moments without screens. Personally, I love to take a walk around my garden, check on my indoor plants or even just dust a few surfaces. Regardless of the activity, it’s a break from the screens and engages my other senses for while.
Consider creating a “tech-free” zone or time in your day. For example, avoid checking your phone first thing in the morning or just before bed. Doing so helps create a buffer around your day, making it easier to focus on yourself rather than being immediately swept into the digital world.
5. Practise Gratitude at the End of Each Day
This habit is a classic for good reason: practising gratitude actually shifts your focus to the positive, which reduces stress. At the end of each day, think of three things you’re grateful for. They can be as small as a good cup of tea or a friendly conversation.
You don’t need to write them down if that feels like a chore – just take a minute to reflect. Over time, this habit can help you see the good moments in each day, even when things feel difficult. It’s like a gentle reminder that there’s still joy and calm, even in the midst of life’s chaos.
6. Move Your Body – But Don’t Stress About “Exercise”
We’ve all heard that exercise reduces stress, but it doesn’t need to be intense or time-consuming to make a difference. If you’re not in the mood for a workout, that’s okay. Just aim to move in a way that feels good. Go for a short walk, stretch, or dance around the living room – anything that gets your body moving and your blood flowing.
Gentle movement releases endorphins, which are natural mood boosters, and helps relieve muscle tension that builds up when we’re stressed. Plus, moving mindfully encourages you to be present in your body, rather than lost in stressful thoughts. It’s a reminder to take care of yourself without any added pressure.
7. Schedule ‘Worry Time’ If Your Mind Won’t Switch Off
This may sound odd, but scheduling time to worry can actually help reduce stress. If your mind is constantly going over concerns, give yourself a specific 10-15 minute window each day to think about them. Write them down or just sit and let yourself worry for that time.
Outside of this ‘worry time,’ gently remind yourself that you’ve got space set aside for concerns later. By containing worries to a specific time, you can prevent them from intruding on other parts of your day. It sounds strange, but it can be a very effective way of managing stress!
8. Savour Small Moments Throughout the Day
Sometimes the smallest things can bring us back to the present moment. Savouring is the practice of fully appreciating small, positive moments, no matter how simple they are. Take a few seconds to notice the warmth of your coffee, the feeling of sunshine on your face, or the softness of a cosy jumper.
These moments might not seem like much, but they can add up to a more mindful, joyful day. When you make an effort to savour small pleasures, you’re training your mind to notice the good, rather than focusing solely on stress or tasks.
9. Do a Quick Body Scan Before Bed
A body scan is a simple mindfulness technique that helps you unwind and connect with your body. Before going to sleep, take a few minutes to lie down, close your eyes, and mentally scan each part of your body from head to toe. Notice any tension you might be holding and, if possible, consciously relax those areas.
Body scans can help you become more aware of stress that’s lodged in your muscles and encourage relaxation. It’s a grounding habit to help clear your mind, release tension, and ease into a restful night.
10. Be Kind to Yourself, Every Day
Lastly, let’s talk about self-kindness. One of the biggest sources of stress can be our own inner critic. Many of us are harsher on ourselves than we’d ever be to others. Start practising self-compassion by catching negative thoughts and reframing them with kindness. When you make a mistake, try to speak to yourself as you would to a friend.
Self-kindness isn’t always easy, but it makes a huge difference. Remember, there’s no “perfect” way to be mindful or stress-free. The goal is to be gentle with yourself, to try out habits that feel right, and to keep going – even when things are tough. Life can be stressful, but with a few mindful habits, we can hopefully learn to adjust our sails and feel a bit happier and on course.
CONCLUSION
These are some simple ways to incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine to keep stress in check. Hopefully, a few of these ideas resonate with you and can become part of your routine. Remember, living simply and intentionally is about taking small steps which can lead to big changes.
Antonia Colins is the creator of Balance Through Simplicity, helping busy people declutter, simplify and live more intentionally. She has over 20 years of personal and professional experience in juggling work and family life and supporting individuals to remain independent and enjoy their home more. In her spare time, you can find Antonia walking, gardening or planning her next travel adventure! She lives in the UK with her husband and teenage kids. Read more about Antonia.