Do you rush straight into your day and then wonder why you lurch from one thing to another? In this article I’m exploring how to set your intention for the day and why it matters for a more meaningful and focused day that you want to enjoy.
START YOUR DAY WITH PURPOSE BY SETTING YOUR INTENTION
What are your mornings like at the moment? How often do you wake up, grab your phone, and dive straight into emails, social media, or the demands of the day? It’s all too easy to let the world pull you in a dozen directions before you’ve even had a chance to figure out how you want your day to go. That’s where setting an intention comes in.
Setting an intention for the day is like giving yourself a compass. It’s a small but powerful habit that can help you approach life with more clarity, purpose, and meaning. Think of it as deciding how you want to BE before deciding what you want to DO.
I admit I find it very difficult to go slowly sometimes. I’m a doer, an action-taker and I’ve always struggled to switch off. It’s something that I’m always working on and consciously trying to take it slower – especially in the mornings.
So, one of the activities that I’ve come to love during my morning quiet time is setting my intention for the day. Not only does this help me prioritise my To Do list, but it helps me focus on the present, have a kind of game-plan for my day and remind myself to focus on what matters – even if my day has its own agenda!
In this article I wanted to explore what setting your intention for the day really means, why it’s so important, how to do it, and how I think it can change your day (and life) for the better.
WHAT DOES SETTING YOUR INTENTION FOR THE DAY MEAN?
Setting an intention is about focusing your mind and energy on something that matters to you. It’s not about ticking off tasks or creating a To Do list – that comes later. Instead, it’s a conscious decision about how you want to feel, act, or approach your day.
For example:
“Today, I will be patient and kind, no matter what.”
“I will embrace challenges as opportunities to grow.”
“I will focus on being fully present with my family.”
An intention is like planting a seed. It’s not a rigid goal or rule but a guiding principle that shapes your actions and decisions. It’s about who you want to be and the energy you want to carry with you.

WHY DOES SETTING AN INTENTION MATTER?
We live in a world full of distractions and demands, and it’s so easy to let life happen to us. Without a clear intention, the day can feel scattered, and we often end it wondering where the time went or why we feel unfulfilled.
When you set an intention, you take control of your mindset. It’s like steering the ship instead of letting the wind push you around. Here’s how it helps:
1. Brings Clarity
An intention helps you focus on what’s important to you. Instead of reacting to whatever comes your way, you’re guided by your own values and priorities.
2. Reduces Stress
When you know what you want to focus on, it’s easier to let go of things that don’t align with your intention. This can reduce overwhelm and create a sense of calm.
3. Creates Meaning
Living with intention makes each day feel purposeful. Even small moments can take on a deeper significance when they align with what matters most to you.
4. Boosts Positivity
Starting the day with a positive, intentional mindset can set the tone for everything else. It’s a way of choosing to see the good, even in challenging situations.
5. Builds Self-Awareness
Regularly setting intentions helps you tune into your emotions, desires, and values. It’s a practice that deepens your understanding of yourself over time.

HOW TO SET YOUR INTENTION FOR THE DAY
Setting an intention doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. Here’s a simple step-by-step guide to get you started:
1. Create Space for Stillness
Before you can set an intention, you need a moment to pause and reflect. This could be first thing in the morning, during your breakfast, or even while brushing your teeth. The key is to find a quiet moment to tune in.
2. Check In with Yourself
Ask yourself:
How am I feeling right now?
What do I need today?
What would make me proud of myself by the end of the day?
Sometimes your intention will come naturally, and other times you might need to dig a little deeper. That’s okay – just listen to what feels right.
3. Keep It Simple and Clear
Your intention doesn’t need to be poetic or perfect. A few simple words are enough to guide you. For example:
“Be patient.”
“Find joy in small moments.”
“Speak with kindness.”
4. Write It Down or Say It Out Loud
There’s power in putting your intention into words. Write it in a journal, say it to yourself in the mirror, or jot it down on a sticky note. This makes it feel more real and keeps it front of mind.
5. Revisit It During the Day
Your intention isn’t a one-and-done thing. Check in with it throughout the day – especially when things get busy or stressful. Let it remind you of how you want to show up, no matter what’s happening around you.

EXAMPLES OF DAILY INTENTIONS
If you’re not sure where to start, here are some examples of intentions you can try:
For a calm and focused day: “I will move through the day with ease and focus on one thing at a time.”
For better relationships: “I will listen more than I speak today.”
For self-care: “I will prioritise my health and take breaks when I need them.”
For tackling challenges: “I will face obstacles with courage and positivity.”
For gratitude: “I will notice and appreciate the beauty around me.”
Choose an intention that feels meaningful to you and fits the kind of day you’re hoping for.
HOW SETTING INTENTIONS LEADS TO A PURPOSEFUL LIFE
When you make a habit of setting daily intentions, you’ll start to notice some big changes. Here’s how this small practice can have a ripple effect on your life:
1. You’ll Live More Intentionally
Setting an intention each day helps you stay connected to your values. Over time, you’ll start making choices that align with the life you truly want.
2. You’ll Find Meaning in Everyday Moments
An intention shifts your focus from “getting through the day” to making the most of it. Even mundane tasks can feel purposeful when they align with your intention.
3. You’ll Feel More in Control
Life can be unpredictable, but an intention gives you an anchor. It’s a way of saying, “No matter what happens, this is how I choose to show up.”
4. You’ll Build Emotional Resilience
When challenges arise, your intention can remind you to stay grounded. It’s a tool for staying positive and finding strength, even in tough moments.
5. You’ll Create a Positive Ripple Effect
Your intentions don’t just impact you – they affect everyone around you. When you show up with kindness, patience, or gratitude, it inspires others to do the same.

CONCLUSION
Setting your intention for the day is such a simple practice, but it has the power to change everything. It’s like giving yourself a little roadmap for how you want to live, one day at a time.
If you’ve never tried it before, start small. Tomorrow morning, take five minutes to set an intention. It doesn’t have to be perfect – just think about how you want to feel or act that day. Write it down, revisit it, and see how it shapes your experience of your day.
So, what’s your intention for today?
If you’d like to learn more about creating a morning routine that works for you and your life, here are some articles which you might find helpful:
- 25 Ideas For a Simple Morning Routine to Kick-Start Your Day
- 20 Ways to Make School Run Mornings Easier
- 7 Minimalist Morning Routine Tips to Start the Day Well
- How to Get Up Earlier for an Easier and More Productive Day
Antonia Colins is the creator of Balance Through Simplicity, a website helping busy people declutter their home and life and live more intentionally. She has over 20 years of personal and professional experience in juggling work and family life and supporting individuals to remain independent and enjoy their home more. In her spare time, you can find Antonia walking, reading or planning her next travel adventure! She lives in the UK with her husband and teenage kids. Get your free Declutter Starter Kit.
Laura
Sunday 24th of November 2024
Hi Antonia, I have a bit of an amusing intention for today: I will leave home well over half an hour in advance to go see the matinee production of Pride and Prejudice today. Last time I went to a play at the local Cultural Centre, I was very nearly late! So I'm going to set this intention now, before I even drink my morning coffee.
Thanks for this great suggestion. I'll give it a try and see how it goes.
Antonia
Wednesday 27th of November 2024
Hi Laura, I love this! Just goes to show that intentions don't have to be big to make a difference!