UNEXPECTED AND LIFE-CHANGING BENEFITS OF MINIMALISM
As I’ve simplified my life over the years, I’ve discovered some unexpected and life-changing benefits of minimalism that reach way beyond just a clutter-free home. I’d like to share them with you here so that perhaps you too can find more time, space and freedom for what matters to you.
I am a minimalist. I prefer clear over clutter, calm over chaos and mindful over mindless. I don’t often call myself a minimalist because I admit that I sometimes feel uneasy about the label. It feels uncomfortable to say that I prefer to have less stuff and that I intentionally choose less stuff when so many in the world don’t have enough in the first place.
However, sometimes it helps to give things a name so you can connect with like-minded souls who share the same ideas and aspire to the same goals – namely a life with less stuff and, well… more life.
The minimalist lifestyle is a full, rich and rewarding one and it’s given me huge benefits. Benefits that have reached beyond just myself, but I think also to those around me – my family, my friends, my colleagues at work and hopefully those who read my little blog for inspiration to simplify life and make space for what matters.
The minimalist lifestyle isn’t for everyone and I know plenty of people who live with clutter and don’t have much of a problem with it (my husband may fall into this category!).
But, if you’re feeling out of sync with your life, unsettled, searching for more, frustrated or fed up – then this article might be right for you.
WHAT IS MINIMALISM?
It may be better to start by saying what minimalism isn’t. It’s not about bare white walls, no furniture, never spending money and only living with what you can fit in a back-pack.
Minimalism can be whatever you want it to be. The only guiding principle to my mind is that you consider what enters and takes up space in your life and intentionally keep out the things that distract and remove you from living that life.
It’s as open-ended as that. It’s not about being frugal, or limiting your possessions to a certain number, or getting rid of your TV. It can be if you want it to be, but I think for most of us that would be too restricting and not realistic.
Instead, it’s about getting clear on what you want in life and letting into your home, schedule, heart and mind the things that align with those wants and NOT the things that shout loudest from our To Do list, our inboxes or the outside world.
In many respects, it’s going against the grain of all that modern life encourages us to participate in. From every angle, we’re encouraged to DO more, ACHIEVE more, BUY more, BE more. But more of all these things doesn’t always make us happier. It often just serves to fill up our diaries and our brains.
So, back then to the question of what is minimalism. It’s not about bare white walls and it’s not about limiting ourselves to a certain number of things.
Minimalism is about seeking out what supports us the best and making space for that in our lives. It’s about keeping out the things which distract us from doing that.
To quote Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist, “Minimalism is the intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of anything that distracts us from it.”
Keep this definition in mind as you read this article. I think it might help.
HOW TO BE MINIMALIST
We’ve looked at what minimalism is, and also what it isn’t, but how do you start being minimalist? If minimalism isn’t just an interior design style or never shopping, then how do you go about being minimalist? Are there certain criteria you have to meet or rules you have to follow in order to call yourself a true minimalist? I don’t think so, because if there were, I’m not sure I’d be able to call myself a minimalist!
What I do know is that, like most things in life, there’s a spectrum. You can be extreme if you want to be and give away most of your stuff, or you can take the other approach…
Shop less but shop mindfully, put things in your schedule but give yourself plenty of free time, love your wardrobe but don’t overstuff it, live in your home but don’t cram it with stuff you don’t love, need or want.
These are just some of the elements that make up my own minimalist-style life. When I think why I call myself a minimalist it’s more to do with my mindset and the choices, decisions and actions I have and take, rather than the number of items in my home or what the inside of my wardrobes look like.
My home is certainly less filled with clutter than many, but it’s still cosy, inviting and the hub of busy family life. My life is equally nice to be living in (albeit with the usual pressures of adult life) but, like my home, I have a reason for letting into my home and life the things that I do and I have reasons for keeping things out. These are the benefits that we’ll talk about in a bit.
In short, how to be a minimalist really boils down to three big things:
- Understanding why you hold onto things (the clutter that we can see and also the clutter that we can’t)
- Knowing what’s important to you in life and making space for that
- Being mindful that you’re prioritising these things as much as possible and keeping out the stuff that gets in the way. This could be in your home, your diary, negative mindsets and other things that you can’t see but still clutters your life.
For some simple steps that you can take, try this article on how to become minimalist.
BENEFITS OF MINIMALISM
If you’re curious about the minimalist lifestyle but not sure whether the effort is worth the reward, then I’d like to share some of the unexpected and life-changing benefits that I’ve experienced.
I say unexpected, because I truly didn’t expect them when I began sorting through my wardrobe and got rid of a few unworn tops. At the time, I hadn’t realised the benefits of this would be so far-reaching! If you’d like, read more about how I simplified my own life.
I’m a working parent juggling kids and a job so my choices and path to simplicity might look a little different to yours. However, I believe that the end result that so many of us are seeking is the same. More time, more space, more freedom, more ease, less stress, less striving, less chasing and more fulfilment.
Shifting my mindset, choosing less not more and simplifying life (or minimalist living if you’d like to use that term to embrace all these) are all wonderful ways of creating a little more balance in life. Here are some of the benefits I’ve felt and maybe you recognise some of them yourself?
1. More time
When I first explored simplifying and decluttering my life, the one thing that I wanted more than anything else was more time. More time for my family, more time for me and more time in my day that wasn’t dictated to by my To Do list or my busy life. Knowing that I wanted more time helped me become brave enough to practice saying no, to postpone or cancel if I was too busy, to learn the value of slowing down and that success in my life wasn’t measured by how many social engagements I had in my diary.
I learnt to declutter my schedule and loved the look and feel of white space, without feeling the need to fill it with stuff that I didn’t really want to do. It made doing the things I had to do easier and less stressful because I wasn’t overbooked or overstretched.
2. More space
Like the clutter in my schedule, the clutter in my home soon went out as I cast my eye around my home and the stuff I’d bought and filled it with. When I looked at it objectively, and made small baby steps to declutter my home, room-by-room, piece by piece, I was surprised at the sheer amount of stuff we’d accumulated but didn’t really need, want or even like.
All these things were costing me time to look after, move around, tidy up and clear away. They also cluttered my line of sight, distracted me from the things that I really did love in my home and made for a chaotic, messy home that was draining my time and energy trying to maintain.
3. More ease
Less to do in my diary and in looking after my home bought about more ease. I created more free time, instead of rushing between A to B and catching up on housework and laundry in between. This free time meant I had more ease, was more laid back and relaxed, calmer and ready to go with the flow of the day, whatever that day might throw at me.
I wasn’t stretched as tight as an elastic band ready to snap when life pulled just that little bit harder. My husband and kids said I was more fun, more positive and more present, instead of that shouty, tired mum that just wanted to get her kids into bed so she could drop into bed herself.
4. More freedom
With more ease in my life and in myself as a person, I leant into the feeling of freedom. I was no longer tied to my overstretched self and overstuffed schedule and brain. I could do things on a whim, try out experiences, seize opportunities. I was feeling more positive and up for a challenge and ready to give things a go, instead of feeling unsettled, upset, tired and worn down. I gave myself latitude and flexibility to go with the flow and it made me happier, more confident and free of being tied to stuff.
Maybe you feel tied to your home, your responsibilities, worries, debt and more? Life certainly comes with its fair share of worries, but it comes with joy and happiness too. Freedom helps you find and make the most of these.
5. More direction
When you’re thinking of what adds value to your life and therefore what clutters it, you’re instinctively also thinking about your priorities. Otherwise, how do you know what to keep and what to get rid of? Whether that’s a photo frame on your shelf or long-held desires to travel the world, questioning your priorities (and checking they’re still relevant) is a wonderful side-effect of the minimalist lifestyle.
What starts out with decluttering your stuff, ends up with you listening to your heart – what lifts you up, what makes your heart sing, what do you want more of in life, what do you want OUT of life – and ultimately, how are you going to get that?
The minimalist lifestyle gifts you more direction. Are you living on auto-pilot and going through the motions, or are you living a life that’s full of what you really want or is it just cluttered by stuff from the outside world? More time, space, ease and freedom helps you find more direction and listen to your heart and the inner you, not just your external environment.
RESOURCES ON MINIMALISM
Decluttering and simplifying life aren’t easy. For many of us, it requires a change of heart and a mindset shift. Not necessarily about the stuff in our homes that takes up space in our cupboards and on our worktops, but adjusting to an ongoing awareness of the stuff that clutters our life in all its shapes and forms (not just too many kitchen utensils and odd socks we don’t need to keep).
The minimalist lifestyle is more far-reaching and often leads us to question WHY we hold onto things, as much as we question WHAT we’re holding on to.
Understanding the reasons why we keep what we do, from extra utensils to bad habits, limiting beliefs, toxic relationships, too many store cards, can help us find ways to overcome them and make lasting change. It’s not always easy to declutter our intricate lives, but it is almost certainly worthwhile.
Here are some resources to help you declutter life and try minimalism for yourself:
- 10 things to declutter that aren’t actual things
- How to declutter your home and life
- Minimalist lifestyle tips – how to embrace minimalist living every day
- What is minimalist living? A helpful guide
- The difference between minimalism and decluttering
- Simplify Your Life – a guide and workbook to help you explore what’s important in your life and how you can begin to create time, space and freedom for what matters
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