Every day, through the choices we make—what we buy, what we keep, how we spend our time—we shape the world around us. The late Jane Goodall believed that each one of us has the power to make a difference, no matter how small our actions may seem. What kind of difference do you want to make? Here are 7 simple ways to live with intention and purpose.
WE ALL MAKE A DIFFERENCE
Whether it’s how we spend our mornings, how we treat others, or what we bring into our homes, every decision creates a small ripple in the world.
Dr. Jane Goodall, who passed away in October 2025 at age 91, spent her life studying chimpanzees and advocating for the protection of animals and the planet. But what made her message so powerful was its simplicity: she believed that every individual has the power—and responsibility—to make a difference.
Her words remind us that we don’t have to do something grand to make an impact. Each of us can live in a way that reflects kindness, respect and thoughtfulness in our everyday choices. The way we care for our homes, our families and ourselves matters.

LIVING SIMPLY IS A FORM OF IMPACT
Living simply and intentionally is one of the most accessible ways to make a difference. When we choose less clutter, fewer distractions and slower, more mindful routines, we naturally live in a way that supports both our wellbeing and the world around us.
Every time you choose to declutter, reuse, recycle, or slow down, you are saying yes to calm, clarity, and purpose—and no to stress, waste, and overconsumption.
This doesn’t mean you have to do everything perfectly or turn your days and life upside down. It’s not about throwing out all your cleaning products or clothes to buy ethically conscious and environmentally friendly alternatives or ditching your car and walking everywhere.
This is about raising your awareness, making small shifts and making a start – somewhere.
That’s what I hope the ideas in this article will help you do.
7 SIMPLE WAYS TO DECIDE WHAT KIND OF DIFFERENCE YOU WANT TO MAKE
If you’re ready to think more deeply about how to live with purpose and make a difference, here are seven gentle but simple steps to guide you.
1. Look at What Matters Most to You
Before you can live intentionally, you need to know what really matters. Take a few quiet minutes to reflect on your values.
Ask yourself:
- What brings me joy and peace?
- What do I want more of in my life?
- What do I want less of?
- What kind of person do I want to be remembered as?
Write down your top three values. These might be family, kindness, simplicity, honesty, or health.
Once you know what truly matters to you, every decision becomes easier. You can weigh your choices against your values and ask whether this supports the life I want to live?
Intentional living isn’t about rules, it’s about direction. We’re required to be flexible, resilient and happy to change things if something’s not working for us anymore. Knowing your values helps you set that direction with confidence.
2. Notice Where Your Energy Goes
We all have the same 24 hours, but how we use them shapes how we feel.
Take a look at your typical day or week. Where does your time and energy go?
- Do you spend hours managing clutter or scrolling your phone?
- Do you often feel drained, rushed, distracted or unable to switch off?
- Or do you feel calm, focused and in control?
Write down how you currently spend your time and how you want to spend it. Sometimes the gap between those two lists can be eye-opening. It’s so easy to get caught up in the detail of our day to day that we fail to see exactly what we are doing in every day.
Even small shifts—like putting your phone away during meals or saying no to one unnecessary commitment—can help you live in a way that’s calmer, more purposeful, and better aligned with what truly matters.
At the very least, focusing on one thing at a time (where possible) and being fully present in whatever we’re doing, can also help us feel less stressed and rushed.

3. Declutter Your Space with Purpose
Clutter doesn’t just fill your cupboards—it fills your mind.
When your home is full of things you don’t use or love, it can make you feel heavy, distracted, or overwhelmed. Research has shown that clutter isn’t good for our physical or mental health. But when you begin to let go, you free up physical and emotional space.
Start small. Choose one drawer, one shelf, or one surface. Empty it completely, then only put back the items that add value to your life. Let go of the rest—donate, recycle, or sell them if you can. These are more sustainable ways to declutter that help protect the environment.
Ask yourself as you go:
- Do I use this?
- Do I love this?
- Does this fit the life I’m trying to create?
The goal isn’t to have a perfect, minimalist home—it’s to create a calm, welcoming space that supports you. And each time you clear a little clutter, you’re creating that difference—one drawer at a time.
4. Simplify How You Spend
Every purchase is a choice, not just about money but about energy, space and impact.
Before buying something new, pause and ask yourself three questions:
- Do I really need this?
- Will it add value or just take up space?
- Can I use or repurpose something I already have?
When we slow down our spending, we reduce clutter, waste and guilt. We also become more content with what we already have.
Try setting yourself a “no-spend week” or “one in, one out” rule—if something new comes in, something else must go out.
Living simply doesn’t mean never buying anything—it means buying intentionally, choosing things that truly support your values and simplify your life.
5. Make Time for What You Love
Life isn’t just about managing chores or To Do lists—it’s about making time for what fills your heart.
Think about what makes you feel alive: reading, walking, creating, connecting, or being outdoors. These moments restore your energy and bring balance to your days.
Try scheduling small pockets of time for what you love—just 15 or 30 minutes. Protect this time as you would any important appointment.
When you prioritise what you love, you live with more joy and purpose. You also become more present and patient in other areas of life.

6. Be Kind in Small Ways
Kindness doesn’t have to be grand or costly—it’s the small, everyday gestures that often matter most.
Hold the door open. Compliment a stranger. Send a message to someone who’s struggling. Be gentle with yourself when you make a mistake.
Kindness ripples outwards. One kind act can lift someone’s day, inspire others, or remind people that goodness still exists.
Making kindness part of your everyday life is one of the most powerful ways to make a difference. It costs nothing but can change everything.
7. Reflect and Reset Often
Intentional living isn’t a one-time decision—it’s something you come back to again and again.
Each season, or as part of your evening review and reflection, take time to check in with yourself. Ask:
- What feels good in my life right now?
- What feels busy, stressful, or unnecessary?
- What could I simplify or let go of?
- What would make my life feel lighter?
You might choose to adjust your routines, declutter another area, or revisit your priorities. Reflection keeps you growing in the right direction and helps you stay true to your values.
SMALL STEPS, BIG CHANGE
The difference you make doesn’t come from doing everything at once—it comes from taking small, consistent steps in the right direction.
You make a difference when you choose kindness over criticism. When you buy less and value more. When you clear clutter and create calm. When you slow down and savour the moment.
As Jane Goodall reminded us, “What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.”
So start where you are. Do one small thing today that feels right for you. Let your home, habits and choices reflect the kind of impact you want to leave behind.
You have more power to make a difference than you think—one simple, intentional step at a time.
Here are some more articles which you might enjoy next…
- How to Prioritise Connection Over Consumption
- 10 Ways to Reduce Distractions in a Cluttered and Noisy World
- How Minimalism Benefits the Environment
- The Benefits of a Capsule Wardrobe for Reducing Waste
- How to Make Time for What Matters Most: 8 Practical Tips
Antonia Colins is the creator of Balance Through Simplicity, a website helping busy, overwhelmed people declutter their home, time and life. She has over 20 years of personal and professional experience in juggling work and family life and supporting individuals to remain independent in and enjoy their home more. In her spare time, you can find Antonia walking, reading or planning her next travel adventure! She lives in the UK with her husband and teenage kids. Get your free Declutter Starter Kit.


Nancy
Saturday 1st of November 2025
Dear Antonia,
Thank you so much for the email your shared together with this article and all the reflections you share. It invites me to reflect too on a deeper level, about our impact and contribution, and how everything we do and choose affects our surroundings whether it is people or spaces, living intentionally is being present and aware of that effect.
Thank you so much, excellent article. Nancy
Antonia
Sunday 2nd of November 2025
Hi Nancy, you're very welcome. In the past I've sometimes been guilty of rushing through life and not stopping to reflect on the here and now, what I have and what impact kind of impact I make. I try to do that more and more these days - to be grateful and intentional. Thank you as always for reading and sharing your thoughts.
Melinda
Monday 27th of October 2025
Hi Antonia,
I found you as I was searching for self help during a very low point in my life nearly 6 years ago. I started my decluttering journey with your 30 day gratitude challenge. I only made it through day 23, but that was the start. I still have that workbook. I have learned to let decluttering be a slow and gradual process. I had not noticed a big difference until this week. My fur baby of nearly 16 years passed. She was in my hospice care for a few days before a final trip to the vet and then bringing her home to bury. Although maybe not clutter free, I at least felt organized. I felt I had the tools I needed where I could find them. And I didn't come home to a big mess to deal with. It felt good just to have a clear space to brush my teeth and no big pile of dirty laundry. Thank you for the consistency you bring to my life and for all the meaningful work you do.
With gratitude,
Melinda D. Rolff
Antonia
Wednesday 29th of October 2025
Hi Melinda, thank you so much for your comment. Sometimes it is difficult to show up, stay consistent, find the motivation to encourage others when motivating oneself feels hard enough. Writing this blog has taught me so much but what I love to hear most is when readers find me and use my tips to make their life easier. It's why I started writing. I am incredibly honoured to have you as a reader since I first started the blog and so glad you've been able to take the ideas and make your home work for you. 16 years is a long time with a fur baby and, as I look over at my dog asleep next to me, I feel your pain. With gratitude back, Antonia.
Beth
Monday 27th of October 2025
Tjanks for your writing this. It has given me the little push I needed!
Antonia
Wednesday 29th of October 2025
Hi Beth, you're so very welcome! We all need a little push every now and then! Thank you for your comment.